Why careful savers freeze when it’s time to spend in retirement
By Seth Deal, CPA/PFS
Note: The examples and case studies in this article are hypothetical but represent real situations I have encountered in my practice working with Washington State public employees.
The spreadsheet that never says “enough”
Greg is meeting with me, sharing a spreadsheet he built himself.
He’s 54, a firefighter with more than twenty years on the job and a LEOFF 2 pension waiting at the end of it. He plans to hang up the gear in a couple of years. He has saved steadily for decades, put money into his DCP more years than not, and his numbers look good.
And yet he keeps asking the same question three different ways.
“But what if it’s not enough?”
I hear some version of that from a lot of careful savers. They did everything right. They have the pension, the 457(b), and money set aside on top of it. On paper they are in great shape.
The problem is they cannot feel it.
You have been saving for a stranger
There is a body of research that helps explain this. It comes from a UCLA professor named Hal Hershfield, who studies how we think about our future selves.
His basic finding is a little strange. Most of us experience our future self almost like a different person1. Not quite a stranger, but not quite us either.
That distance is not all bad. But it shapes every long decision we make about money.
When you save for retirement, you are really saving for that other person down the road. The more connected you feel to them, the easier it is to make patient choices today.
Here is the part I find most interesting. Hershfield and his colleagues tracked thousands of people over ten years. The ones who felt more similar to their future selves early on reported higher life satisfaction a decade later, even after accounting for income, age, and how satisfied they already were1.
So the relationship you have with future you matters. And it keeps mattering long after you retire.
Why the math feels scary even when it isn’t
Greg saved well. He clearly cares about his future self. That should make retirement feel safe.
But something flips at the finish line.
Here is the strange part. He knows exactly how much money he has. What he does not know is how long it has to last. He could need it for five years. He could need it for thirty-five.
That unknown is what makes careful people freeze. The worry is always the same. What if I run out?
So they keep doing the thing that worked for twenty-plus years. They save. They wait. They tell themselves next year.
The skills that make someone a great saver do not automatically make them a great spender. Those are different muscles.
Your pension changes the equation
This is where Washington public employees have an advantage most retirees do not.
That “how long will it last” fear is mostly a problem for people living off a pile of savings alone. If your whole retirement is a 401(k) balance, every withdrawal feels like it shrinks the pile.
Your pension works differently. It is income for life. It does not run out at year five or year thirty-five. It keeps paying as long as you do.
When Greg and I separated his pension from his savings on that call, the question changed. It was no longer “will my money last.” A big chunk of his essential spending was already covered by a check that never stops.
His savings and DCP sit on top of that floor. That is a very different feeling, and most people never reframe it that way.
What actually helps
A few things tend to move careful savers from frozen to comfortable.
Start by naming your non-negotiables. What does your basic life actually cost each year? Housing, food, insurance, the ordinary stuff. Once you see that number, you can line it up against your pension and any Social Security you’ve earned, and see how much is already handled before you touch a dollar of savings.
Then translate the plan into real money, not percentages. People hear that their plan has a high chance of success and still feel uneasy, because nobody can picture what a percentage means for their actual life. It lands better to say something concrete. You need this much to cover your life. You can comfortably spend this much more on the things you actually want.
Give your money a job on purpose. Our brains do not treat all dollars the same, so use that. Earmark a specific withdrawal from your DCP for a specific trip, and it stops feeling like money leaving the pile and starts feeling like a plan you already made.
And watch out for assuming future you wants exactly what present you wants right now. It comes up most on the big, hard-to-undo decisions. When you pick a retirement date, or decide when to claim Social Security, or weigh whether to move, it deserves a longer conversation than people usually give it.
Spend some of it now
One more idea from this work stuck with me.
The early years of retirement, when you are healthy and active, are not guaranteed to last. Memories made with your family while everyone can still travel are worth something real, and you cannot buy them back later.
Saving so hard that you skip those years does not protect your future self. It robs that person of memories they would have loved to have.
Where to start
You do not need to overhaul anything this week.
Sit down and figure out what your basic year actually costs. Look at how much of that your pension covers before you touch your savings. Then have an honest talk with your spouse about what you want the first ten years of retirement to look like.
If those numbers feel overwhelming, that is exactly the kind of thing worth walking through with someone who knows the Washington systems.
You spent decades taking care of a future version of yourself. At some point, that person shows up. The kind thing is to let them enjoy what you built.
If you’re concerned about your current financial plan and would like to explore professional help, consider reaching out.
I specialize in helping Washington Public employees who are nearing retirement or are retired, reduce taxes, maximize pensions, and retire stress-free.
No sales pressure. No obligations. Just professional guidance to help you make the best decision for your financial future.
-Seth Deal
Sources
1. Reiff, J. S., Hershfield, H. E., & Quoidbach, J. “Identity Over Time: Perceived Similarity Between Selves Predicts Well-Being 10 Years Later.” Social Psychological and Personality Science, 2019. https://www.anderson.ucla.edu/sites/default/files/documents/areas/fac/marketing/Hershfield/Reiff_Hershfield_Quoidbach_2019_SPPS.pdf